I didn't find this story. Dee (where have you gone, Dee?) aka payne_deas posted it to discuss at Fic Talk back in 2007. I don't know what made me think of it. It is nearly perfect, isn't it? I don't think I realized just how good it really is back then, although I did say some nice things about it. Sadly, this woman has written only one other story for our fandom.